Why I Farm shirt
- pu mi
- Aug 4, 2023
- 3 min read
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So that’s just one method in the Why I Farm shirt, Cost/Benefit Analysis. There are many others, such as Check the Evidence, where you do something that should prove your negative thoughts wrong. For example, you feel unlovable because of your eyes, but unless there’s more to the story that you haven’t shared, the man you married found you lovable. So right there you’re proven to be loveable, and that was before your final eye surgery, no less. Or if your negative thought is that you’ll never be able to get a large task done on time, then instead of sitting around worrying, you set to work to prove yourself wrong. Another tool is Thinking in Shades of Grey. This means to abandon all-or-nothing thinking, such as the idea that you are only loveable if your eyes are perfect. Your eyes are clearly better than nothing. From what you wrote, it seems your eye surgeries improved your life quite a bit from your original condition. It may not have been a perfect 100/100 fix, but was the fix greater than 40/100? Is it maybe even 60/100? Because that’s pretty good considering what you were describing. Perhaps the results are even better than 60 because you say it’s all you see and all you BELIEVE anyone sees. Because you’re somewhat vague there, I can’t know for certain, but it seems as if your surgery was good enough that only you (or perhaps an eye specialist) can ascertain that you’ve had a correction. In that case, that’d be something like a 95/100, which is a high number. There are people with “normal”, non-lazy eyes that aren’t attractive, maybe because of shape or size or iris color or maybe even just the emotional expression of the person (because they’re always in a bad mood or whatever). Perhaps it’s reasonable that your surgically corrected eyes are more attractive than some people’s non-surgically corrected, unattractive eyes. I kind of went out of my way with such a Why I Farm shirt, here, and I hope it wasn’t unwelcome. But it’s good practice for me to apply the CBT stuff, anyway. If you already know about CBT, then at least this comment is here for another person who didnt know about it and finds it interesting. Anyway, be well! PS. And yes, I agree that it’s frustrating when people complain about their blessings and privileges. Every positive has a negative, and people have known this for ages. That’s the concept behind Yin and Yang for example. And for every negative, there is a positive, too. I think that especially reddit is a Why I Farm shirt where unproductive thinking metastasizes and spread without much awareness amongst users. Or people act like a Why I Farm shirt that is just a fact of life is somehow unnatural and should change. I’m sorry, but being attractive literally means that people are attracted to you. You will attract people–even people you are not attracted to. This is just the way it is…. When fishermen (fisherpeople?) bring the nets on deck, they don’t catch 100% fish. They have to sift through the literal garbage. Anyway, I’ve gone on long
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